Jodoh ketentuan Illahi

bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

" Kak yanti bila lagi nak kawen?"..Saya hanya tersenyum, tersenyum kerana tidak ada jawapannya..

Abu 'Abd al-Rahman 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported: The Messenger of Allah, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, the most truthful, the most trusted, told us:

"Verily the creation of any one of you takes place when he is assembled in his mother's womb; for forty days he is as a drop of fluid, then it becomes a clot for a similar period. Thereafter, it is a lump looking like it has been chewed for a similar period. Then an angel is sent to him, who breathes the ruh (spirit) into him. This Angel is commanded to write Four decrees: that he writes down his provision (rizq), his life span, his deeds, and whether he will be among the wretched or the blessed.

I swear by Allah - there is no God but He - one of you may perform the deeds of the people of Paradise till there is naught but an arm's length between him and it, when that which has been written will outstrip him so that he performs the deeds of the people of the Hell Fire; one of you may perform the deeds of the people of the Hell Fire, till there is naught but an arm's length between him and it, when that which has been written will overtake him so that he performs the deeds of the people of Paradise and enters therein."

[Al-Bukhari & Muslim]


Bila saya nak kahwin? ..

Rahsia,

Ya, rahsia Illahi, Tuhan yang mengaturkan segalanya dengan sempurna..

Jodoh,cepat ataupun lambat, ketetapan Illahi, only time can tell, insyaallah..Segalanya tersusun indah di lauh mahfuz, tanpa cacat cela. Seandainya apa yang dirancang tidak kesampaian, usah dikesali, usah di tangisi. Allahkan lebih tahu apa yang terbaik untuk kita.

Buat mereka yang sedang bahagia melayari bahtera rumahtangga..doa saya agar cinta kalian membawa ke syurga Illahi. Semoga menjadi pasangan dan kurniakan zuriat yang 'qurratul a'in', insyaallah..

Memang benar, hidup 'berdua, banyak manisnya (tak kurang juga pahitnya :p), pahala beribadah pun berganda..tapi hidup 'secara solo' pun indah dan penuh makna..Hargai setiap detik kehidupan. Tunaikan tanggungjawab yang terpikul di bahu dan apa yang lebih penting.. ENJOY YOUR SINGLE LIFE :)!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pada masa yang sama, fokuskan kepada 'menjadi' bukan sekadar 'mencari'. Tarbiyah diri dalam hal - hal pengurusan rumahtangga, biar jadi menantu kesayangan :)(bak kata ma)..

Doakan yang terbaik, jangan doa sipi - sipi..Doalah apa sahaja untuk kebaikan dunia dan akhirat, hatta agar dicepatkan jodoh, tapi hamba yang meminta pada Ya Rabb harus sedar bahawa percaturan Allah itu tak sama seperti percaturan manusia. Doalah dengan penuh pengharapan, kerana ALlah itu Maha Pemberi Rezeki...